Samantha Fairgrieve, UKCP Accredited Psychotherapist

Samantha Fairgrieve

BA1 English
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Samantha Fairgrieve, UKCP Accredited Psychotherapist

Samantha Fairgrieve

BA1 English
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My Approach

Many clients come to therapy understanding their patterns intellectually but still feeling unable to change them. You may know you overthink, over-adapt or doubt yourself — yet find you continue to do so under pressure.

Rather than offering strategies alone, therapy focuses on the emotional roots of low self-esteem and relational difficulty. We explore how internal pressure builds, how defences operate and how past experiences continue to shape present reactions.

The aim is not simply to cope better, but to develop lasting self-trust, clarity and emotional steadiness so you can relate to yourself and others from a more grounded and confident position.

About Me

Struggling with low self-esteem, chronic self-doubt or losing yourself in relationships? I specialise in helping adults who over-give, people-please and second-guess themselves build genuine self-respect and confidence.

I am a UKCP-accredited and BACP-registered psychotherapist with over ten years’ experience supporting adults who feel stuck in repeating relational and emotional patterns. You may find it hard to say no without guilt, to trust your own judgement or to feel steady in who you are when relationships feel strained.

I am trained primarily in Intensive Short-Term Dynamic Psychotherapy (ISTDP), an evidence-based, emotionally engaged approach that helps bring unconscious patterns into awareness so they can be transformed — not simply managed. This is an active, focused and collaborative process. We work directly with what happens in the moment, including emotional reactions, bodily responses and habitual defences, so long-standing patterns can shift at their roots.

Alongside ISTDP, my background in psychosynthesis supports exploration of identity, meaning and personal development, helping you build a stronger relationship with yourself as well as greater emotional resilience.

I offer individual psychotherapy in-person in Bath and online across the UK. I also offer a free 15-minute introductory call so you can ask questions and see whether this focused way of working feels right for you.

I work with

  • Individuals
  • Private healthcare referrals

Special Interests

Like all UKCP registered psychotherapists and psychotherapeutic counsellors I can work with a wide range of issues, but here are some areas in which I have a special interest or additional experience.

Intense reactions, irritability or emotional outbursts are often signs of internal pressure rather than “just anger.” Many clients feel caught between feeling misunderstood and regretting how they respond under stress. Therapy helps you understand what is being activated in relationships, how pressure escalates and how underlying emotional conflicts can be addressed safely. This increases choice, emotional regulation and confidence in how you express yourself.
Anxiety often accompanies low self-esteem and relational insecurity. It can appear as constant overthinking, tension, emotional overwhelm, hyper-responsibility or difficulty staying present. Rather than simply managing symptoms, we explore how anxiety is generated internally — including the role of unprocessed emotion and self-criticism — so it can reduce at its source.
I specialise in working with people who lose themselves in relationships through chronic over-attunement to others and under-attunement to themselves. This may show up as people-pleasing, difficulty saying no, fear of conflict, withdrawal, overthinking or guilt when asserting your needs. Therapy focuses on understanding the emotional patterns driving these behaviours and helping you reconnect with your own feelings, boundaries and values. The aim is to build genuine self-respect and a more secure sense of who you are in relationships.
I work with trauma associated with the cumulative impact of repeated relational experiences, particularly where early environments have shaped patterns of self-doubt, hyper-vigilance, emotional shutdown or intense reactions in relationships. Therapy provides a contained and focused space to process these patterns safely, reducing the ongoing influence of past experiences and supporting the development of more secure internal foundations.

Types of Therapies Offered

  • Psychosynthesis Psychotherapist

What I can help with

  • Anger Management
  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Family
  • Mental Health Issues
  • Online Counselling
  • Post-Traumatic Stress
  • Relationships
  • Stress
  • Trauma

Types of sessions

  • Face to Face - Long Term
  • Face to Face - Short Term
  • Online Therapy

Office

George Street Therapy Rooms
2nd Floor
2 Prince's Buildings, George Street
BA1 2ED
United Kingdom (UK)

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Cost:

£90 per 50 minute session

Bath Office

3rd Floor
1 Northumberland Buildings
Wood Street
Bath BA1 2JB

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Cost:

£90 per 50 minutes, longer sessions also available

UKCP College

  • Humanistic and Integrative Psychotherapy College (HIPC)
Samantha Fairgrieve

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