Samantha Fairgrieve, UKCP Accredited Psychotherapist

Samantha Fairgrieve

BA1 English
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Samantha Fairgrieve, UKCP Accredited Psychotherapist

Samantha Fairgrieve

BA1 English
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My Approach

Many people come to therapy already understanding their patterns intellectually, yet still finding they repeat them under pressure. You may recognise that you overthink, over-adapt, hold yourself to relentless standards or doubt your own judgement — yet the same reactions keep taking over in relationships or difficult situations.

Therapy looks at the emotional conflicts that drive patterns such as low self-esteem, perfectionism and people-pleasing. By working directly with these underlying patterns, deeper change becomes possible and behaviour can begin to shift naturally.

The aim is not simply to cope better, but to help you feel more secure in yourself — able to trust your judgement, recognise and respond to your own wants and needs and remain connected to who you are in your life and relationships.

About Me

Do you often find yourself over-giving in relationships, worrying about disappointing others or second-guessing your decisions?

Perhaps you hold yourself to high or perfectionistic standards while quietly doubting whether you are “good enough”. Over time this can lead to exhaustion, resentment or a sense of losing yourself.

I specialise in helping adults who struggle with low self-esteem, chronic self-doubt, perfectionism and patterns of losing themselves in relationships develop a stronger sense of self-respect, confidence and emotional balance.

I am a UKCP-accredited and BACP-registered psychotherapist with over ten years’ experience supporting adults who feel stuck in repeating relational and emotional patterns. Many of the people I work with find it difficult to say “no” without guilt, trust their own judgement or stay connected to themselves when relationships feel challenging.

I am trained primarily in Intensive Short-Term Dynamic Psychotherapy (ISTDP), an evidence-based and emotionally focused approach that helps bring unconscious patterns into awareness so long-standing reactions can begin to change.

This is an active and collaborative process. We work directly with what happens in the moment — including emotional reactions, bodily responses and habitual ways of responding — so the underlying processes keeping your difficulties in place can begin to shift.
I continue to undertake advanced clinical training and supervision in this approach.

I offer individual psychotherapy in-person in Bath and online across the UK. I also offer a free 15-minute introductory call so you can ask any questions and decide whether you would like to work together.

I work with

  • Individuals
  • Private healthcare referrals

Special Interests

Like all UKCP registered psychotherapists and psychotherapeutic counsellors I can work with a wide range of issues, but here are some areas in which I have a special interest or additional experience.

Anxiety often accompanies low self-esteem, relational insecurity and perfectionistic tendencies. It can present as overthinking, tension, emotional overwhelm, hyper-responsibility or difficulty staying present. Therapy goes beyond managing symptoms. We explore how anxiety arises internally — including the impact of unprocessed emotion, self-criticism and perfectionistic pressure — so it can ease at its source.
I work with people who lose themselves in relationships, prioritising others’ needs while neglecting their own or holding themselves to perfectionistic standards. This can appear as people-pleasing, difficulty saying no, fear of conflict, withdrawal, overthinking, overworking or guilt when asserting yourself. Therapy helps you understand the emotional patterns behind these behaviours and reconnect with your own feelings, boundaries, and values, so you can build self-respect and feel secure in your relationships.
I work with trauma arising from the cumulative impact of repeated relational experiences, especially where early environments have shaped patterns of self-doubt, hyper-vigilance, emotional shutdown, perfectionistic pressure or intense reactions in relationships. Therapy provides a contained, focused space to process these patterns safely, reduce the ongoing influence of past experiences and support the development of a more secure, resilient sense of self.

Types of Therapies Offered

  • Psychosynthesis Psychotherapist

What I can help with

  • Anger Management
  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Family
  • Mental Health Issues
  • Online Counselling
  • Post-Traumatic Stress
  • Relationships
  • Stress
  • Trauma

Types of sessions

  • Face to Face - Long Term
  • Face to Face - Short Term
  • Online Therapy

Office

George Street Therapy Rooms
2nd Floor
2 Prince's Buildings, George Street
BA1 2ED
United Kingdom (UK)

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Cost:

£90 per 50 minute session

Bath Office

3rd Floor
1 Northumberland Buildings
Wood Street
Bath BA1 2JB

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Cost:

£90 per 50 minutes, longer sessions also available

UKCP College

  • Humanistic and Integrative Psychotherapy College (HIPC)
Samantha Fairgrieve

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