Rebecca Mistry, UKCP Accredited Psychotherapist

Rebecca Mistry

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Rebecca Mistry, UKCP Accredited Psychotherapist

Rebecca Mistry

HA4
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My Approach

I work systemically. Rather than looking for one person to blame or "fix", we look together at the patterns and relationships around a difficulty, so that every voice in the family is heard. My work is trauma-informed, and we go at a pace that feels manageable for you.

With families affected by drinking or drug use, I draw on CRAFT (Community Reinforcement and Family Training) alongside systemic practice. It focuses on you, the family member: how you respond, and looking after yourself as well as the person you're worried about.

We start with a free initial consultation: a chance to talk through what's happening, ask any questions, and see whether working together feels right. There's no pressure to commit.

About Me

When someone you love is drinking or using drugs, it can affect everyone in the family. You might be worried, exhausted, angry or unsure where to turn, and it can be hard to know what would help. You don't have to work it out alone.

I'm a UKCP-registered systemic and family psychotherapist, seeing families, couples and individuals at The Blossom Tree Clinic in Pinner and online. Before I trained as a psychotherapist, I spent over 15 years working with families affected by drinking and drug use, in the NHS, local authorities, prisons and charities. I trained at the Institute of Family Therapy, where I gained a Masters-level, UKCP-accredited professional qualification in family and systemic psychotherapy, including over 300 hours of live clinical supervision with families.

I work with parents worried about a son or daughter, partners of someone who drinks or uses drugs, adult children of alcoholics, and families in recovery. I also see couples, and families facing conflict, separation or the changes of a blended family.

Whatever has brought you here, you'll be met with warmth and without judgement.

I work with

  • Children and young people
  • Couples
  • Families
  • Individuals
  • Private healthcare referrals

Special Interests

Like all UKCP registered psychotherapists and psychotherapeutic counsellors I can work with a wide range of issues, but here are some areas in which I have a special interest or additional experience.

Support for anyone affected by a loved one's drinking or drug use: partners, parents, adult children of alcoholics and families in recovery. You don't have to wait for the other person to change before getting support for yourself.
Separation, or building a blended family, can bring big changes for everyone. I offer a space to talk things through together and work out a way forward.
Family therapy brings everyone together in a space where each person's view is heard and taken seriously. It can help when a family is stuck in conflict, struggling to communicate, or adjusting to a big change.
Couples and relationship therapy for married and unmarried partners at any stage. That includes couples who are unsure whether to stay together and want space to work it out.
My work is trauma-informed, so sessions are paced with care. I also support families with the loss and grief that can come with a loved one's addiction.

Types of Therapies Offered

  • Family and Systemic Psychotherapist
  • Family Therapist
  • Systemic Family and Couple Psychotherapist

What I can help with

  • Addiction
  • Couple Issues
  • Divorce
  • Family
  • Relationships
  • Trauma

Types of sessions

  • Face to Face - Long Term
  • Face to Face - Short Term
  • Online Therapy

Office

Blossom Tree Clinic
Suite 2, 6a Love Lane
HA4 9BD
United Kingdom (UK)

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UKCP College

  • College of Family Couple and Systemic Psychotherapy (CFCSP)

Working with Children

For more information about therapy for children and young people, visit our info page.
Rebecca Mistry

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