Noorien Halari, UKCP Accredited Psychotherapist

Noorien Halari

Twickenham TW2
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Noorien Halari, UKCP Accredited Psychotherapist

Noorien Halari

Twickenham TW2
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My Approach

My approach is integrative, which means that I draw upon a range of different theories, psychotherapeutic models and align my approach and clinical responses to each individual case. An integrative approach also recognizes the importance of the whole person, valuing an awareness of the body, feelings, spirit and intellect. My approach takes into consideration the emotional, mental, physical, spiritual, social and cultural aspects of the individual. This way of working is respectful of diversity and difference and ensures acute attention is paid to the unique character of the individual. My aim as a psychotherapist is to create a safe space that you can work from, to investigate and understand thoughts and feelings which may seem overwhelming. The main theories I integrate in my practice are: Psychodynamic, Transpersonal, Gestalt, Existential and Humanistic practices.

From my years of experience of seeing clients, I believe that it takes courage to sit with another human being and explore your most private feelings and thoughts. By talking through the challenges you are facing, the work we do together can help you gain a new understanding of yourself, with a different perspective and by connecting you to a more conscious sense of yourself, it can help you to make informed choices and live a more satisfying and balanced life.

I offer both short and long term work depending on your reasons for seeking therapy. I provide psychotherapy and counselling for individuals from a consulting room in West London, as well as distance therapy on the phone and Skype for both local and internationally-based clients. I do however prefer that we have met face-to-face for several sessions prior to commencing distance therapy.

About Me

I am an experienced and qualified integrative relational psychotherapist and counsellor with years of experience working with a wide variety of difficulties including post-traumatic stress disorder, personality disorders, depression, early childhood trauma, anxiety, anger, loneliness, guilt and relationship difficulties. I value a collaborative relationship with my clients and draw from a variety of therapeutic techniques, along with various modalities including psychodynamic, existential, transpersonal, gestalt and humanistic practices.

I have worked as an honorary psychotherapist at the West London Mental Health NHS Trust, Kingston Women Centre and in private practice. An important part of training is undergoing psychotherapy as a client and I have spent several years in psychotherapy. This gives me an insight into some of the fears and difficulties that you might have in coming to therapy as well as working to process the unprocessed. As registered under the BACP and UKCP, I am bound by their ethical code in all my client work; this includes undertaking regular clinical supervision and further professional development.

On a personal note over many years I have seen the impact of difficulties on the lives of those affected and on their families and have equally seen how therapy can significantly improve the lives of oneself and loved ones. I have been witness to people in my life exploring their psychological worlds and seeking greater self-awareness. Being exposed to a wide range of personal issues and emotional difficulties myself and the impact that it has had on me, has made me want to help enable others to lead a more peaceful and balanced life.

I work with

  • Companies
  • Individuals
  • Private healthcare referrals

Special Interests

Like all UKCP registered psychotherapists and psychotherapeutic counsellors I can work with a wide range of issues, but here are some areas in which I have a special interest or additional experience.

I work with people from many different backgrounds and I have a particular interest in and understanding of the experiences that can arise within South Asian families and communities.  For some people, family, culture and faith are sources of belonging and strength. They can also carry expectations about who you should be, how you should behave and what kind of life you should lead. You may have grown up with strong ideas about what it means to be a good son or daughter, a good husband or wife, or a loyal member of your family. Perhaps certain things could not be spoken about, or you learned that putting your own needs first was selfish or disrespectful. You may now find yourself caught between the life expected of you and the life that feels true to you. This can be a painful and confusing place to be. You may love your family and still feel hurt, angry or restricted by them. You may want greater freedom without wanting to reject your culture or turn your back on the people who matter to you. Guilt and shame can make it difficult to know what you genuinely want, particularly when you have spent much of your life thinking about what others need from you. Some people have also grown up hearing that something bad might happen to them or their parents if they do not follow particular expectations. These messages can remain deeply rooted, even when another part of you questions them. They can affect your relationships, your choices and your sense of safety long into adult life. Therapy itself may feel unfamiliar or uncomfortable. In some families, emotional difficulties are kept private and seeking outside help may be seen as weakness or as bringing shame upon the family. You may worry that speaking openly means being disloyal. I understand that reaching out can take courage, particularly when you have learned to manage everything alone. You might want to talk about family expectations, marriage or relationships, identity and belonging, faith, sexuality, gender identity or neurodivergence. You may be struggling with anxiety, low mood, guilt, shame or the feeling that you do not fully belong anywhere. You do not need to arrive with everything clearly understood or know where to begin.  Although we may share aspects of a cultural background, I will not assume that I already know you or understand your family. No two families, cultures or personal experiences are the same. Therapy can give you somewhere to think honestly about what you have inherited, what you value and what you may want to understand differently. I offer a thoughtful and non-judgemental space where the different parts of you can be heard, including the parts that may feel conflicting. The aim is to help you understand yourself more fully and find a way of living that feels more like your own. What you share in therapy is confidential, within the professional, ethical and legal limits of my practice. We will discuss those limits clearly before we begin. I welcome clients from all backgrounds. This part of my practice reflects my particular interest in working with people whose emotional lives are shaped by culture, family, faith and the experience of living between different worlds.

Types of Therapies Offered

  • Integrative Psychotherapist

What I can help with

  • Abuse
  • Addiction
  • ADHD
  • Adoption
  • Age-related Issues
  • Anger Management
  • Anxiety
  • Autism
  • Bereavement
  • Couple Issues
  • Cultural Issues
  • Depression
  • Disability
  • Divorce
  • Domestic Violence
  • Employment Difficulties
  • Family
  • Gender
  • Health-related Issues
  • Identity Problems
  • Infertility
  • Mental Health Issues
  • Obsessions
  • Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
  • Online Counselling
  • Parents
  • Phobias
  • Physical Abuse
  • Post-Traumatic Stress
  • Race Issues
  • Relationships
  • Sex Problems
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Sexuality
  • Spirituality
  • Step Families
  • Stress
  • Telephone Counselling
  • Trauma
  • Workplace Counselling

Types of sessions

  • Face to Face - Long Term
  • Face to Face - Short Term
  • Online Therapy
  • Telephone Therapy

Twickenham Office


Twickenham TW2 5AB

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Cost:

Assessment fee £65
Session fee £100

New Malden Office


West Barnes Lane
New Malden KT3 6JF
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Cost:

Assessment fee £65
Session fee £100

Hampton Hill Office


Hampton Hill TW12 1NT

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Cost:

Assessment fee £65
Session fee £100

UKCP College

  • Humanistic and Integrative Psychotherapy College (HIPC)
Noorien Halari

Noorien Halari

Twickenham TW2

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