Matthew Barnard, UKCP Accredited Psychotherapist

Matthew Barnard

Oxford OX2
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Matthew Barnard, UKCP Accredited Psychotherapist

Matthew Barnard

Oxford OX2
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My Approach

My approach is collaborative, thoughtful, and tailored to each individual. I aim to create a calm, non-judgmental space where you feel safe to explore difficult thoughts, feelings, and experiences at your own pace. I’m attentive to both what is happening in the present and how earlier experiences may continue to shape patterns in your life today.

I work in a trauma-informed way, combining psychodynamic, relational, and systemic perspectives. This means we may explore underlying emotional patterns, unconscious processes, and relationship dynamics, while also focusing on how these affect your day-to-day life. Where appropriate, I integrate EMDR to help reduce emotional overwhelm and support the processing of distressing experiences.

I see therapy as an active and evolving process. Sometimes this involves careful reflection and insight; at other times it may involve finding practical ways to respond differently to challenges. Throughout our work, I aim to support you in developing greater self-awareness, emotional resilience, and a stronger sense of agency in your life.

About Me

I’m a qualified counsellor working with adolescents and adults who are seeking support with emotional, relational, or psychological difficulties. My work is grounded in the belief that understanding yourself more deeply can lead to meaningful and lasting change, especially when this happens within a safe and trusting therapeutic relationship.

I offer a thoughtful, compassionate space where you can explore what’s going on for you at your own pace. People come to me for many reasons, including anxiety, low mood, stress, relationship or family difficulties, and the impact of past experiences. Often there is a sense of feeling stuck or repeating patterns that are hard to shift alone. Therapy can provide time and space to make sense of these experiences and find new ways forward.

My practice is trauma-informed and integrative. I draw on psychodynamic approaches to explore how past experiences and unconscious processes may influence present difficulties, alongside relational and systemic perspectives that consider the wider context of your life and relationships. Where appropriate, I also use EMDR, an evidence-based approach that helps reduce the emotional intensity of distressing memories and supports greater emotional regulation.

I work collaboratively and tailor therapy to each individual. Some clients value having space simply to talk and reflect, while others appreciate gentle structure, insight, or specific therapeutic methods. You don’t need to know exactly what you want from therapy to begin—part of the work is discovering this together.

I’m a registered member of UKCP, BACP, and the EMDR UK Association, and I work in line with professional and ethical guidelines, including confidentiality and safeguarding. I offer in-person sessions in Oxford as well as online sessions, allowing flexibility depending on your needs.

If you’re considering therapy, I offer a free introductory phone call so you can ask questions and see whether working together feels right. Starting therapy can feel like a big step, and my aim is to make that process as clear, supportive, and respectful as possible.

I work with

  • Families
  • Individuals

Special Interests

Like all UKCP registered psychotherapists and psychotherapeutic counsellors I can work with a wide range of issues, but here are some areas in which I have a special interest or additional experience.

I also use EMDR to support individuals with ADHD, particularly where emotional overwhelm, low self-esteem, or the impact of repeated negative experiences has become part of daily life. While ADHD itself is not caused by trauma, living with ADHD can involve ongoing challenges such as feeling misunderstood, criticised, or “not good enough,” which over time can become emotionally wounding. In EMDR, trauma is understood not only by what happened, but by how experiences were processed and stored in the nervous system. Many people with ADHD experience heightened emotional sensitivity and difficulty regulating stress, which can make these experiences more likely to remain unresolved. Using EMDR, we can work on reducing the emotional charge linked to these memories and the negative beliefs that often develop alongside them, such as shame or self-blame. The aim is to help you feel less overwhelmed, more emotionally regulated, and more confident in how you experience yourself and the world. EMDR can support a shift away from long-standing patterns of self-criticism, helping you develop greater resilience, self-compassion, and a stronger sense of agency in your life.
I help adolescents and adults who are experiencing anxiety in its many forms, including constant worry, panic, social anxiety, overthinking, and a persistent sense of being on edge. Anxiety can affect relationships, work or school, sleep, and self-confidence, and it often leaves people feeling exhausted or stuck in unhelpful patterns. Where appropriate, I use EMDR to help reduce the intensity of anxiety linked to distressing memories or experiences, supporting greater emotional regulation and a sense of safety in the present. My aim is to help you feel more grounded, develop confidence in managing anxiety, and regain a sense of choice and balance in your life.
I use EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing) as part of my trauma-informed approach to help clients process distressing or overwhelming experiences. Trauma can result from single events or from repeated experiences over time, particularly in early life, and it can continue to affect emotions, beliefs, and relationships long after the event has passed. EMDR works by helping the brain reprocess memories that have become “stuck” and continue to trigger distress in the present. Through a structured and carefully paced process, EMDR supports your nervous system to reduce the emotional intensity linked to these memories, allowing them to be experienced as something in the past rather than something that feels ongoing. I introduce EMDR only when it feels appropriate and when you feel ready. Preparation and safety are an important part of the work, and we move at a pace that feels manageable for you. The aim is not to relive experiences in detail, but to help you feel more grounded, reduce symptoms such as anxiety or hypervigilance, and support a greater sense of stability, self-confidence, and emotional resilience in everyday life.

Types of Therapies Offered

  • Psychotherapeutic Counsellor

Types of sessions

  • Face to Face - Long Term
  • Face to Face - Short Term
  • Online Therapy
  • Telephone Therapy

Oxford Office

The Old Bakehouse
2A South Parade
Oxford OX2 7JL
United Kingdom

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Cost:

£70 for counselling/therapy - 50 minute session
£100 for EMDR - 90 minute session

UKCP College

  • Universities Training College (UTC)
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