Malise Hartley, UKCP Accredited Psychotherapist

Malise Hartley

London W1T
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Malise Hartley, UKCP Accredited Psychotherapist

Malise Hartley

London W1T
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My Approach

I offer an active, engaged form of psychotherapy. I am interested not only in what has happened to you, but in how you are living now: where you feel most yourself, where you adapt or hide, what feels essential to you, and what gets in the way of being real with other people.

My approach is integrative, with strong existential, psychodynamic, Jungian, transpersonal and somatic influences. The relationship between us matters more to me than allegiance to any particular therapeutic school.

Therapy with me is conversational and collaborative. I will ask questions, offer thoughts, notice patterns and sometimes challenge you. I also want you to be able to tell me when I am wrong.

Dreams, imagery, bodily experience, creativity and spiritual or uncanny experiences can all enter the work if they matter to you. I take these seriously without assuming that they prove any particular belief about how the world works. We can explore what an experience means without forcing it into a predetermined interpretation.

I pay close attention to what happens in the body and between us. Sometimes understanding something intellectually is not enough. We may notice tension, defensiveness, withdrawal or the felt need to protect yourself as these arise, and explore whether those patterns can begin to let go.

Humour, curiosity and honesty are important parts of how I work.

About Me

I am a UKCP registered transpersonal psychotherapist and a Registered Member of BACP (MBACP).

I work particularly well with thoughtful people with rich inner lives, and with those with creative minds. I also enjoy working with people whose minds move quickly or non-linearly, including many people with ADHD.

I am particularly interested in the parts of people that have not fitted comfortably with what others expected them to be. Sometimes this means working with someone who has spent years adapting, pleasing others, hiding aspects of themselves or feeling ashamed of being different.

Some people come to therapy with a clearly defined difficulty; others want to understand themselves, their relationships, their creativity or the direction of their lives more deeply.

I have a longstanding involvement in writing and the creative arts. With writers and other creative people, therapy sometimes develops naturally into discussion of the work itself, particularly where creative material and the person's inner life overlap.

I work both short and long term.

I work with

  • Individuals

Special Interests

Like all UKCP registered psychotherapists and psychotherapeutic counsellors I can work with a wide range of issues, but here are some areas in which I have a special interest or additional experience.

I enjoy working with people with ADHD, particularly the combination of quick or non-linear thinking with difficulties around attention, organisation, motivation or follow-through. Therapy can include practical ways of understanding and working with these difficulties, but I am equally interested in their psychological consequences: shame, frustration, self-criticism, feeling different, or years spent trying to function in ways that do not come naturally. The aim is not to make your mind resemble somebody else's, but to understand how yours works and help you make better use of it.
Anger is not simply something to eliminate or control. It can contain information about boundaries, frustration, hurt, injustice and things that have remained unsaid. We can work on being able to experience anger without either suppressing it or allowing it to become destructive, and on understanding what it is asking you to recognise or change. Body awareness can also help with noticing anger earlier and allowing the physical activation around it to settle.
Some anxiety belongs naturally to being alive and having choices, relationships, responsibilities and an uncertain future. At other times anxiety becomes so persistent or intense that it restricts life. I work both with what anxiety may mean psychologically and with how it is experienced physically. This can include noticing patterns of tension, vigilance and self-protection and gradually developing a greater capacity to feel at ease with other people and with yourself.
Questions about identity often become particularly important when someone has spent a great deal of their life adapting to other people. I am interested in what feels genuinely important to you, what you may have hidden or disowned in order to belong, and what happens when you begin to take those parts of yourself seriously. Therapy can become a place to experiment with greater honesty: including disagreeing with me, correcting me and allowing yourself to be known without first making yourself acceptable.
Trauma can affect the way we think and remember, but also how the body responds to closeness, danger, uncertainty and loss of control. Alongside talking and making sense of what happened, we may pay attention to bodily tension, felt safety, emotional regulation and what happens in the therapeutic relationship itself. The aim is not to force traumatic material to the surface, but to increase your freedom from the ways in which past danger continues to organise life in the present.

Types of Therapies Offered

  • Transpersonal Psychotherapist

What I can help with

  • ADHD
  • Anger Management
  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Eating Disorders
  • Family
  • Identity Problems
  • Mental Health Issues
  • Obsessions
  • Parents
  • Post-Traumatic Stress
  • Spirituality
  • Suicide
  • Trauma

Types of sessions

  • Face to Face - Long Term
  • Face to Face - Short Term
  • Online Therapy

London Office

Charlotte Street
London W1T 4QQ
United Kingdom

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Cost:

£80

Concession:

Some concessions available

Godstone Office

Lagham Park
South Godstone
Godstone RH9 8ER
United Kingdom

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Cost:

£70

UKCP College

  • Humanistic and Integrative Psychotherapy College (HIPC)
Malise Hartley

Malise Hartley

London W1T

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