Karen Shaw, UKCP Accredited Psychotherapist

Karen Shaw

Newark-upon-Trent NG24
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Karen Shaw, UKCP Accredited Psychotherapist

Karen Shaw

Newark-upon-Trent NG24
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My Approach

Who Can I Help
I am an integrative, relational psychotherapist working with individuals and adult relationships. This includes couples, adult family members, polycules, and other consensual non-monogamous or non-traditional relationship structures. I offer a confidential and reflective therapeutic space in which emotional, psychological, and relational difficulties can be explored with care, depth, and curiosity.
People come to psychotherapy for many reasons. Some are responding to a particular life event, such as trauma, bereavement, relationship rupture, or significant transition. Others seek support with longer-standing patterns of emotional distress, relational difficulties, or questions of identity, meaning, and self-worth. I work with present-day concerns while also attending to the wider relational and developmental contexts in which these difficulties have emerged.

Longer-Term Psychotherapy
My practice is primarily oriented towards longer-term psychotherapy, allowing sufficient time to explore emotional experience, patterns of relating, and internal processes in depth. This work often involves attending to how early attachment relationships and past experiences continue to shape present-day feelings, behaviours, and relationships.
While the focus remains grounded in the here and now, psychotherapy may include careful and respectful exploration of earlier experiences where this is therapeutically meaningful. Over time, longer-term work can support increased self-understanding, emotional integration, relational change, and a greater sense of agency and coherence.

Adult Relationship Psychotherapy (Imago-Informed)
In my work with adult relationships, including couples, families, and polycules, I draw on Imago-informed psychotherapy alongside my integrative and relational training. This approach understands relational distress as emerging from often unconscious patterns shaped by early attachment experiences, which can become activated within close adult relationships.
Rather than focusing solely on conflict management, the work aims to support greater emotional awareness, mutual recognition, and relational safety. I work with those who wish to understand and shift recurring relational patterns, deepen connection, or develop more conscious and intentional ways of relating to one another.

How I Work
My practice is grounded in a humanistic and relational psychotherapy framework. I integrate theory, clinical experience, and ongoing reflective practice to shape a therapeutic approach that is responsive to each individual or relationship. Assessment and formulation are ongoing processes, allowing the work to develop in an ethically attuned and clinically appropriate way.
Where appropriate, I may integrate EMDR within a longer-term relational psychotherapy framework, particularly when working with trauma or distress linked to past experiences.
Central to my approach is the therapeutic relationship itself, which I understand as fundamental to psychological and relational change. I aim to offer a thoughtful, containing, and respectful therapeutic space, working with openness, integrity, and professional care.

About Me

Hello, I’m Karen and I’m a Psychotherapist and Psychotherapeutic Counsellor. I aim to offer a therapeutic space that feels warm, thoughtful, and non-judgemental, where people can explore what has brought them to therapy at their own pace.
I work with adults and couples/relationships and support clients with difficulties such as anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, and relational challenges. I have a particular interest in working with people who have experienced sexual violence or abuse, and with those affected by childhood or developmental trauma. I am an LGBTQ+ ally and have experience of working with neurodivergent clients.
My practice is based in a fully accessible setting in Newark, close to the A1 with free parking, and I also work from a second location in Grantham. Sessions are available both in person and online.
I believe deeply in the value of therapy as a space for reflection, understanding, and change, and I feel privileged to support people as they work towards living with greater ease and self-compassion.

I work with

  • Companies
  • Couples
  • Groups
  • Individuals

Special Interests

Like all UKCP registered psychotherapists and psychotherapeutic counsellors I can work with a wide range of issues, but here are some areas in which I have a special interest or additional experience.

I have a particular interest in working with people who have experienced abuse, including sexual abuse, emotional abuse, and relational harm within childhood or adult relationships. I understand abuse not only in terms of what has happened, but also in how it can shape a person’s sense of safety, trust, self-worth, and capacity for connection over time. My work is grounded in a relational and integrative psychotherapeutic approach, offering a confidential and carefully paced space in which experiences of abuse can be explored with sensitivity and respect. I am attentive to issues of power, consent, and boundaries, and work collaboratively to support a sense of agency, choice, and emotional safety within the therapeutic relationship. I recognise that experiences of abuse can have lasting psychological and relational effects, often carried in ways that are complex or difficult to articulate. My aim is to support people in making sense of their experiences at a pace that feels manageable, fostering greater integration, self-compassion, and the possibility of more secure and fulfilling relationships over time.
I have a particular interest in working with adult relationships, including couples, adult family members, and consensual non-monogamous or non-traditional relationship structures. I understand relational difficulties not simply as problems to be solved, but as meaningful expressions of attachment needs, emotional histories, and unconscious patterns shaped over time. My work with relationships is integrative and relational, drawing on Imago-informed psychotherapy alongside my wider training. Rather than focusing solely on communication techniques or conflict resolution, the work aims to support deeper emotional awareness, mutual recognition, and relational safety. I work with relationships who wish to understand recurring patterns, navigate transitions or ruptures, or develop more conscious and intentional ways of relating. I aim to offer a balanced and containing therapeutic space in which each person’s experience is respected, and where the relationship itself can become a site for reflection, growth, and repair over time.
I am trained in EMDR and may integrate this approach within a longer-term relational psychotherapy process where it is clinically appropriate. I understand EMDR not as a standalone technique, but as one way of supporting the processing of distressing or unresolved experiences that may continue to affect emotional regulation, self-perception, and relationships in the present. When EMDR is used, it is carefully paced and embedded within a broader therapeutic relationship, with attention to safety, stabilisation, and the individual’s wider relational and developmental context. I work collaboratively, ensuring that any use of EMDR is guided by ongoing assessment, consent, and the needs of the person or relationship, rather than by protocol alone. My overall approach remains grounded in relational psychotherapy, with EMDR offered as a supportive element within an integrative framework, particularly when working with trauma or experiences that feel difficult to access through words alone.
I have a particular interest in working with people who have experienced sexual abuse or sexual violence, in both childhood and adulthood. I understand these experiences as having the potential to affect not only emotional wellbeing, but also a person’s relationship with their body, sense of consent, identity, and capacity for trust and intimacy. My approach is relational and integrative, with careful attention to pacing, safety, and the therapeutic relationship. I work sensitively with issues such as shame, self-blame, dissociation, and difficulties with closeness or bodily boundaries, recognising that the impact of sexual abuse may be complex, layered, and not always easily put into words. I aim to offer a respectful and containing therapeutic space in which experiences can be approached gradually and collaboratively, supporting greater integration, agency, and self-understanding over time. Where appropriate, and always within a relational framework, EMDR may be integrated as part of the wider psychotherapeutic work.
have a particular interest in working with trauma, including the longer-term psychological and relational impact of childhood adversity, developmental trauma, and experiences such as sexual violence or abuse. I understand trauma not only in relation to specific events, but also as something that can become woven into patterns of relating, emotional regulation, self-worth, and identity over time. My approach is relational and integrative, attending to how past experiences continue to shape present-day feelings, behaviours, and relationships. I work carefully and collaboratively, prioritising safety, pacing, and the therapeutic relationship itself as central to trauma work. Where appropriate, I may integrate EMDR within a longer-term psychotherapeutic process, always guided by clinical judgement and the needs of the individual or relationship. I am mindful that trauma often exists beyond words, and I aim to offer a thoughtful, containing space in which experiences can be explored with care, respect, and sensitivity, supporting greater integration, agency, and self-understanding over time.

Types of Therapies Offered

  • Adult Psychotherapist
  • Psychotherapeutic Counsellor

Types of sessions

  • Face to Face - Long Term
  • Face to Face - Short Term
  • Online Therapy

Newark-upon-Trent Office

Unit 10 3 Jessop Close
Brunel Business Park
Newark-upon-Trent NG24 2TT
United Kingdom

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Cost:

individual £65 for 50 minutes
relationship therapy from £80 for 60 minutes

Grantham Office

Unit 4 Hill Court
Turnpike Close
Grantham NG31 7XY
United Kingdom (UK)

  Wheelchair accessible View Map

Cost:

individual session £65 for 50 minutes
relationship therapy from £80 for 60 minutes

UKCP College

  • Humanistic and Integrative Psychotherapy College (HIPC)
  • Psychotherapeutic Counselling and Intersubjective Psychotherapy College (PCIPC)
Karen Shaw

Karen Shaw

Newark-upon-Trent NG24

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