I believe therapy works best when it is collaborative. I won't tell you how you should think, feel or live your life. Instead, we will work together to understand what is happening for you and what you might want to change.
In our sessions, we will pay attention to what is happening in your life now, while also being curious about your past and how earlier experiences may continue to influence the way you think, feel, relate to others and see yourself today.
Often, the patterns we develop make sense when we understand where they came from. They may once have helped us to cope, belong, feel safe or navigate difficult circumstances, but over time they can become limiting or no longer serve us in the same way. Therapy gives us an opportunity to understand the 'why' behind these patterns and consider whether they still fit the life you want to live now.
My approach is relational and grounded in Transactional Analysis, while also drawing on other humanistic approaches. This means that the relationship we develop is an important part of the therapy. Together, we can notice what emerges, make sense of it with curiosity rather than judgement, and explore the possibility of doing things differently.
I am a UKCP-registered psychotherapist and Adoption Support Counsellor, working in private practice in Hove, East Sussex, and London as well as online.
I offer a warm, relational and collaborative approach to therapy, creating a space where you can explore what is happening in your life and begin to understand the experiences and patterns that may have shaped you. Rather than making assumptions, we'll begin with your story and work together to understand what has brought you to therapy.
I work with adults experiencing a wide range of difficulties, including anxiety, low mood, low self-esteem, relationship difficulties, loss and significant life changes. I also have particular experience in working with adoption and its lifelong impact, addiction and recovery, and people making sense of a later ADHD diagnosis.
No two people arrive in therapy with the same story, so I don't believe in a one-size-fits-all approach. We will work at a pace that feels right for you, with curiosity and without judgement, towards a greater understanding of yourself and the possibility of meaningful change.
Like all UKCP registered psychotherapists and psychotherapeutic counsellors I can work with a wide range of issues, but here are some areas in which I have a special interest or additional experience.