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Eleanor Stanford

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Eleanor Stanford

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My Approach

We all go through times when life feels especially hard, uncertain, or painful. When we need help to work through our problems or a period of transition.

I see therapy as a collaborative process, and my aim is to create a space where you can express yourself freely. Where we work together to better understand your past and present, to untangle disruptive thoughts or behaviours, and to help you heal for a future with more possibility.

Many of the individuals I work with identify as LGBTQIA+, and my practice is queer, trans, non-binary, relationship diverse, and kink friendly. Living under late capitalism, I am sensitive to the myriad ways marginalisation can impact mental wellbeing, and also have a special interest in and experience of cross-cultural therapy (working across racial and cultural difference).

My practice is neurodiversity-affirming, and if you have a mental health diagnosis, I am interested in what it means for you.

As an integrative therapist, I shape my approach to your specific needs. Here is a brief list of the approaches I may draw on:

Relational - extensive research has shown that the quality of the therapeutic relationship is the best vehicle for change, and so I prioritise creating a warm, accepting environment and robust alliance between us.

Psychodynamic - in which we pay attention to what’s happening on unconscious, as well as conscious, levels.

Trauma-informed - being sensitive to how overwhelming experiences impact the mind and body, using frameworks including Internal Family Systems.

Somatic therapy - working more directly with the body and the nervous system to help regulate and avoid retraumatisation, using frameworks including Polyvagal Theory.

I am experienced working with anxiety, intrusive thoughts, depression, questions or issues around gender, questions or issues around sexuality, bereavement, abuse, stress, obsessional behaviours, low self-esteem, burnout, alcohol and drug issues, relationship breakdown or conflict, work problems, and issues with family of origin.

If you don’t see what brings you to therapy on this list, it doesn’t mean we can’t work together. Get in touch and we can talk.

About Me

In addition to my years in private practice, I have experience working with LGBTQIA+ young people, providing low-cost counselling to diverse communities in North London, and as part of a multi-disciplinary NHS team focused on personality disorders. I am also a member of the assessment team for a local counselling charity.

Following six years of training, I obtained an MSc and a Diploma in Integrative Psychotherapy from the Metanoia Institute, one of the leading centres in the U.K. Before that, I studied Integrative Psychotherapy and Counselling at The Minster Centre.

I came to train as a psychotherapist following my own extensive experience as a client in individual and group therapy, and so I know first hand how transformative this work can be. I consider the therapeutic space to be a rare gift.

Sometimes, words can’t express the complexity of being human, and in these moments I enjoy working creatively. That can mean drawing on wider ideas from art, literature, or philosophy, and working with art-making, metaphor, or the embodied experience.

My practice and work continue to evolve. To support this dynamic process, I participate in a range of Continuing Professional Development activities, encompassing the latest developments and research in the field.

Recently, this has included trainings in Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT) and trauma-informed somatic work. My work also receives regular clinical supervision from a senior colleague.

I am a member of The Relational School.

I work with

  • Individuals

Special Interests

Like all UKCP registered psychotherapists and psychotherapeutic counsellors I can work with a wide range of issues, but here are some areas in which I have a special interest or additional experience.

Types of Therapies Offered

  • Integrative Psychotherapist

What I can help with

  • Abuse
  • ADHD
  • Age-related Issues
  • AIDS/HIV
  • Anxiety
  • Autism
  • Bereavement
  • Bullying
  • Cultural Issues
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Domestic Violence
  • Employment Difficulties
  • Family
  • Gender
  • Health-related Issues
  • Identity Problems
  • Obsessions
  • Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
  • Parents
  • Physical Abuse
  • Post-Traumatic Stress
  • Race Issues
  • Relationships
  • Separation
  • Sex Problems
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Sexuality
  • Stress
  • Transgender
  • Trauma

Types of sessions

  • Face to Face - Long Term
  • Face to Face - Short Term
  • Online Therapy
  • Telephone Therapy

Office

280 Mare Street
E8 1HE
United Kingdom (UK)

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Cost:

My fees are on a sliding scale between £60 and £80, which allows me to reserve the lower end of the scale for students and those on lower incomes.

London Office

28 Hanbury Street
London E1 6QR

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Cost:

My fees are on a sliding scale between £60 and £80, which allows me to reserve the lower end of the scale for students and those on lower incomes.

UKCP College

  • Humanistic and Integrative Psychotherapy College (HIPC)
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